A Council is given, and is received by conviction. It should not surprise us, that in this dimension while we journey all is possible, moreover, there are those who say that all this writing and simply touches us act according to the journal of our life. The truth, that we should not surprise, that with regard to emotions, feelings that everyone must experience in any of its manifestations, especially in affective ties, specifically, what couple is concerned, we face given the reality that one day say: everything ended, of that came at this time which is us had destined to be togethermany times, by personal decisions, where one of the players determines that it is in the end, that should not be together either because a reality to which we are all doomed is evident, as is the physical disappearance, came to our last day of life and we must separate ourselves. Certainly, we are subject to this reality face anytime, that our time has concluded, we must separate us and where we must know we both share it optimally evaluate, what was his legacy, which both grew up, how happy were, how we learned our opportunity; Thus, as in that we were wrong, that errors we made, in where we neglect, that contribute towards our growth. Not the slightest doubt, that the fact some already having experienced the end of a relationship, often because there was no understanding, simply because it was not given the necessary attention, care that she demanded, invited to consider, the why it came to a final decisicion, that there is nothing to do, all invited to assess where we were wrong the why they came to that decision, most when it has been product of our inattention, of having not grown, simply consider that everything was long-lasting and we were always going to stay in it.
It is a psychic disposition or a mood by virtue of which the subject perceives sub ratione Mali (under the evil reason) all the phenomena that surround to him. Within the pure Psychology and more in particular of Psychiatry, the pesimism is one of the manifestations or more habitual symptoms of the disease of the exogenous or endogenous depression or distimia. revistaconsumer.es on the pesimism remembers to us that we do not have to let to us catch by the pesimism, the worse thing is than who insist on seeing the negative side of the things, besides becoming unfortunate people, has a laborious facility to make bitter the life especially of those who they have alongside, if the victims is young or young, or depends emotionally on the always unsatisfied person. The disagreeable experiences tend to moor to us to the past and inhibiting to us the future, because they condition to us and they frighten. Simplifying a little, it will give equal how the things really go, because if we showed a negative and pessimistic predisposition, moments we will sift the happy them in excess and we will perceive with distrust and reserves, without writing down them to ours " haber". Normally, the bitter ones tend to play the victim role, in a form of interpersonal communication in which (to catch the other people’s energy and attention almost always), they assume one several of these rolls: the one of pursuer, who does of bad, interrogates and is perceived like a ready one that it knows everything and it punishes or it humiliates to those who it thinks that they are mistaken; the one of rescuer, who looks for that they recognize its kind paper to him but that simultaneously he passes constantly invoices to us of whichever does, and the one of victim, whose exposition of survival and communication he is to give pity to the others, catching its attention by means of the exhibition of its suffering.